fix: overhaul container lifecycle — recovery, health, uninstall, UI state

Container recovery:
- Health monitor: MAX_RESTART_ATTEMPTS 3→10, interval 60s→120s
- Dependency-aware restarts: won't restart services before their deps
- Reset dependent counters when a dependency recovers
- Handle "created" state containers (were invisible to health monitor)
- Added IndeedHub, mempool-api, mysql to tier system
- Crash recovery: podman start timeout 30s→120s with retry
- Podman client: socket timeout 5s→30s, added restart policy

UI state representation:
- Exit code 0 shows "stopped" (gray), not "crashed" (red)
- Exit code 137 shows "killed (OOM)"
- Non-zero exit shows "crashed" (red)
- Added exit_code field to PackageDataEntry

Install/uninstall fixes:
- Install returns error when container doesn't start (was silent success)
- Post-install hooks awaited instead of fire-and-forget tokio::spawn
- Uninstall: graceful rm before force, volume prune, network cleanup
- Uninstall returns error on partial failure (was 200 OK)

Config consistency:
- DB passwords read from /var/lib/archipelago/secrets/ (was hardcoded)
- Bitcoin: added ZMQ ports 28332/28333 for LND block notifications
- IndeedHub port 7777→8190 (was conflicting with strfry)
- Marketplace versions: LND 0.17.4→0.18.4, Mempool 2.5.0→3.0.0

Performance:
- Metrics collector interval 60s→300s (was duplicating health monitor)
- Podman client: proper error propagation instead of unwrap_or_default

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

neode-ui/src/components/ToastStack.vue

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 <template>
   <Teleport to="body">
-    <div class="fixed top-4 right-4 z-[9999] flex flex-col gap-2 pointer-events-none max-w-sm w-full">
+    <div class="fixed right-4 z-[9999] flex flex-col gap-2 pointer-events-none max-w-sm w-full" style="top: calc(var(--safe-area-top, env(safe-area-inset-top, 0px)) + 16px);">
       <TransitionGroup name="toast-stack">
         <div
           v-for="toast in toasts"