security+feat: v1.3.0 — pentest remediation, container reliability, UI overhaul

Security (33 pentest findings addressed):
- CRITICAL: backend binds 127.0.0.1, path traversal in tor.rs/dwn fixed
- HIGH: federation requires signatures, XSS login redirect, RBAC viewer restricted
- HIGH: tar slip prevention, S3 SSRF validation, backup ID validation
- MEDIUM: remember-me random secret, TOTP session rotation, password re-auth
- LOW: CSP unsafe-inline removed, CORS dev-only, onion/webhook validation

Container reliability:
- Memory limits on all 37 containers (OOM prevention)
- Exited vs stopped state distinction with health-aware status badges
- Crash recovery coordination (no more restart cascade)
- User-stopped tracking survives reboots
- Tiered boot recovery (databases → core → services → apps)

UI:
- Wallet TransactionsModal, health-aware app status badges
- Restart button on containers, exited/crashed red state
- Mesh view overhaul, glass button updates, BaseModal/ToggleSwitch
- Apps sticky header removed, dev faucet, mutable mock wallet

Infrastructure:
- LND REST port 8080 exposed over Tor (LND Connect fix)
- Nginx cookie_session fix, deploy script Tor config updated
- Dev environment: podman auto-start, boot mode simulation

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

neode-ui/src/views/Federation.vue

@@ -304,7 +304,7 @@
           <div v-if="!confirmRemove">
             <button
               @click="confirmRemove = true"
-              class="w-full mt-4 px-4 py-2 rounded text-sm text-red-400 border border-red-400/30 hover:bg-red-400/10 transition-colors"
+              class="w-full mt-4 px-4 py-2 rounded text-sm glass-button glass-button-danger transition-colors"
             >
               Remove from Federation
             </button>
@@ -318,7 +318,7 @@
               >Cancel</button>
               <button
                 @click="removeNode(selectedNode!.did)"
-                class="flex-1 px-3 py-1.5 rounded text-sm text-red-400 border border-red-400/30 hover:bg-red-400/10 transition-colors font-medium"
+                class="flex-1 px-3 py-1.5 rounded text-sm glass-button glass-button-danger transition-colors font-medium"
               >Confirm Remove</button>
             </div>
           </div>