fix: harden OTA updates, AIUI desktop gap, LND no-proxy

- update.rs: post-OTA probe falls back to http://127.0.0.1/ on connect
  error (nginx binds :80, not :443) so good updates are no longer rolled
  back; recover stuck update_in_progress; avoid ETXTBSY on running binary
- LND: REST client bypasses proxy, GET newaddress p2wkh, wallet
  readiness/unlock after restart
- Dashboard.vue: chat route back to plain h-full (desktop bottom-gap fix)
- vite.config.ts: dev-only /aiui proxy
- tests/release/run.sh: release gate harness (static+frontend+backend)
- CHANGELOG: v1.7.89-alpha notes

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

neode-ui/package-lock.json

@@ -1,12 +1,12 @@
 {
   "name": "neode-ui",
-  "version": "1.7.88-alpha",
+  "version": "1.7.89-alpha",
   "lockfileVersion": 3,
   "requires": true,
   "packages": {
     "": {
       "name": "neode-ui",
-      "version": "1.7.88-alpha",
+      "version": "1.7.89-alpha",
       "dependencies": {
         "@types/dompurify": "^3.0.5",
         "@vue-leaflet/vue-leaflet": "^0.10.1",