security+feat: v1.3.0 — pentest remediation, container reliability, UI overhaul

Security (33 pentest findings addressed):
- CRITICAL: backend binds 127.0.0.1, path traversal in tor.rs/dwn fixed
- HIGH: federation requires signatures, XSS login redirect, RBAC viewer restricted
- HIGH: tar slip prevention, S3 SSRF validation, backup ID validation
- MEDIUM: remember-me random secret, TOTP session rotation, password re-auth
- LOW: CSP unsafe-inline removed, CORS dev-only, onion/webhook validation

Container reliability:
- Memory limits on all 37 containers (OOM prevention)
- Exited vs stopped state distinction with health-aware status badges
- Crash recovery coordination (no more restart cascade)
- User-stopped tracking survives reboots
- Tiered boot recovery (databases → core → services → apps)

UI:
- Wallet TransactionsModal, health-aware app status badges
- Restart button on containers, exited/crashed red state
- Mesh view overhaul, glass button updates, BaseModal/ToggleSwitch
- Apps sticky header removed, dev faucet, mutable mock wallet

Infrastructure:
- LND REST port 8080 exposed over Tor (LND Connect fix)
- Nginx cookie_session fix, deploy script Tor config updated
- Dev environment: podman auto-start, boot mode simulation

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.6 (1M context) <noreply@anthropic.com>

neode-ui/src/components/cloud/ShareModal.vue

@@ -28,10 +28,7 @@
             <p class="text-sm font-medium text-white/90">Share this {{ isDir ? 'folder' : 'file' }}</p>
             <p class="text-xs text-white/50 mt-0.5">Make visible to connected peers</p>
           </div>
-          <label class="share-toggle">
-            <input type="checkbox" v-model="shared" />
-            <span class="share-toggle-slider"></span>
-          </label>
+          <ToggleSwitch v-model="shared" />
         </div>
 
         <!-- Access Type (only when shared) -->
@@ -126,6 +123,7 @@
 <script setup lang="ts">
 import { ref, onMounted } from 'vue'
 import { rpcClient } from '@/api/rpc-client'
+import ToggleSwitch from '@/components/ToggleSwitch.vue'
 
 const props = defineProps<{
   filename: string